*本书有英语样章

本书收入了所有爸爸们希望家里那个登入青少年时期男孩知道的事。他们即将成为大人，也即将成为真正的男人。这是一个重要的工具，帮助男孩们成长，给他们需要的情绪教育。

这本书的初心就是作者写给他儿子的话，都是他希望自己在儿子的年龄的时候有人跟他说过的话。他希望他们的父子关系能够建立在启发以及动力上，能帮助儿子成为一个成熟稳重的男人。我们要如何成为男人，如果我们根本不知道男人代表了什麽?

我们如何理解表达出悲伤和恐惧是多麽重要，而不是担心自己会显得脆弱。我们要如何去迎接生命丢给我们的那些最高的丶最意想不到的波浪? 有些人会留在原地，双腿踩着地面并将波浪的冲击转化为力量的挑战大喊：让我们看看谁能赢! 但生活不是比赛，生命就是训练。这一切的成功并不容易。但青春期是漫长的旅程，由许多阶段组成。

关於作者: 

ALBERTO PELLAI is a doctor and a psychotherapist of the evolutionary age as well as a researcher at the department of bio-medical sciences at the Università degli Studi di Milano. In 2004 the Ministry of Health awarded him the silver medal of merit. His books have sold more than 200.000 copies only in Italy. Among his best seller titles for parents, children and teachers: Tutto Troppo Presto, Girl R-evolution, I Papà Vengono da Marte, le Mamme da Venere, L’Età dello Tsunami, Il Metodo Famiglia Felice, all published by DeAgostini. Among the latest titles published Le Cose che Nessuno ha il Coraggio di Dirti prima dei 10 anni, Mentre la Tempesta Colpiva Forte, Vietato ai minori di 14 anni, Next Level. His innovative series on the evolutionary changes for small kids and their parents Piccole Grandi Sfide has been translated in 10 languages and selected also by the American Psychological Association. All his parenting books have been translated into several languages.